Tonight I was able to get my boy restrained in a kneeling position with wrists and ankles all cuffed together.  Fist time to use the ball gag and blindfold too.  The combination of these things was very exciting to me.  Visually it was very sexy, but also feeling like he had limited movement, no vision and could not talk was freeing to me.  I could do whatever I wanted.  Hit. stroke, scratch, flog....The blindfold was especially freeing....an unexpected effect.  I strut around him feeling stronger....maybe braver.  Looking forward to more of this.  I was very aroused, very wet.